How someone gets to become "good loser" ?

[ReyPunter]

let me clarify i said "good loser" NOT  big loser

 

i recently heard someone saying : i never met a successful trader who wasnt a good loser

 

 so who is a good loser?

 

someone who is not getting  affected or emotional about  a loss

someone who stays detached from the outcome of a trade and keeps trading by his plan/shedule

 

 

My question is how to become like this?

how toimprove those skills?

 

 although i have been improved significantly that last years stilll there are times a loss makes me emotional and raising the stakes in trades i didnt plan to involved

[ReyPunter]

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